i know all families each hav their own problems, arguments. these are inevitable. but for some, it maybe to their extreme. some parents can juz be really unreasonable tat they'll juz dig up all e past n present mistakes tat u made to screw u up, got u into tongue-tied, at a loss for words in arguments. maybe im not someone who's good in arguin. well, some parents could even juz change their target frm scoldin one to another. draggin e innocent party into e quarrels. im juz totally pissed off by tat. some families claimed tat pp said they pampered their eldest child e most. but, did they really pamper? i doubt so. who knoes, or maybe its juz too obvious for e child to knoe him or herself tat whether their parents pamper who e most. but for outsiders, they only get to see e surface on e whole. they don even knoe a single shyt on wats happenin within e family. but im really surprised tat, even one of e family member oso shared e same thought, claimin e parent pamper e eldest too much. some even claimed tat they din yearn for their child to score distinctions. but hello, actions speak louder than words. though they din say out, e child can feel it themself. comparin one child to another is a no-no. it wont come out any rite. wat results will it cause? child becomin more n more less confident of themselves. became really demoralised. no fire in them to study. no motivation to do well. u tell me, wats e point of scorin well n not, when results were always not satisfactory to them? topped e class isnt any big deal. but to someone who had nv topped e class before to suddenly gettin e first position in class is really somethin to be overjoyed on. child will definitely wan to share this piece of gd news wif parents. but wat really made their heart sank was when e reactions parents gave was juz shocked n happy for tat instant, n everythin went back to normal again. no compliments, no rewards. maybe one or two compliments tats all. its not e rewards child yearn for. its somethin tat they did, somethin tat their were proud of. but reactions frm parents like tat really set them down to tink, hey aftall, toppin e class isnt a BIG deal. tat causes their studies to go downfall. which parents were always unhappy about.

sometimes those child tat were victims, really yearn they were orphans. havin parents to nag at them isnt somethin tat they really dread, wat hurts them most was tat parents don gif a single tot on how they felt. freedom was not given to them though they were this big. it really disappoint e child. it really demoralised e child. it really really breaks their heart.